I want to start this post stating that I am not yet a parent. I am married though so parenting is in my near future! I wanted to write this post to show some of the most basic methods that parents can employ to protect and control their children from the internet and their computer in general.
Website Blockers
The number one thing people think about when talking about parental controls is website blockers. There are several services which block out bad words, pornography, and other websites which are deemed worth blocking by the service. These services offer up a unique way of protecting yourself from some of the scum that the internet has to offer. Unfortunately they are not perfect systems. They often allow through websites which contain bad content by mistake. They are useful as a general tool for protection, but I think that they are not going to perform well when it comes to actually blocking off someone from trying to access bad content on the web.
What are some solutions to this software’s flaws?
The best solution is to monitor your browser’s web history and check in often on your children when they are using the computer.
Another solution would be to install two of the same kind of service from different providers. That way you would have two systems working to block content. Unfortunately this will slow down your system as they both will require a significant amount of system resources.
If you don’t mind you could also block off all websites except for ones that you allow. That would greatly improve the effectiveness of the filter.
Time Limits
Both modern routers as well as Windows Vista now have a new system built into them that can limit the hours a specific user account or the internet can be in use. This article talks about these features in a bit more detail.
Activating these features will help to limit the time that your children use the computer but won’t protect them from anything while they are actually using the computer.
Application Blocker
Windows Vista can actually allow or disallow computer games via the ESRB rating. So you could set a rule that blocks all games from installing and running that have an ESRB rating of M or above. I’m not a real believer in the ratings that the ESRB gives out to game titles, but it is a good guide to start with when allowing or disallowing games from running and will allow you to exercise control over what is installed on the machine when you are not available for further comment.
The Flawed Nature of Parental Control
Unfortunately, parental controls simply can’t contain children if the children want to break free from the parental controls. Children are extremely resourceful when it comes to technology and can break through most obstacles. So while parental controls may help to protect your children while you are not around, a computer program simply cannot replace good parenting. So use these software programs in conjunction with a teamwork effort with your children to give them a safer computing experience, but don’t try to “control” your children with these tools — if they have any computer experience then they will be able to bypass the parental controls.
God Bless,
-Daniel Kolansky
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